HOW TO CHEER UP AFTER HEART BREAK

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"Turning Away from love out of fear means saying "NO" to life." Anonymous 


Breaking up is termination of an intimate relationship. After break ups, a lot of people do not believe in love anymore, they shut the door to thier heart. This is not the best decision because there is someone always better than your Ex, someone who will meet your needs perfectly.

Meanwhile, there is a need to do thorough inward check up if you are the one that is faulty. You need to amend your ways so that you can enjoy the next relationship. 


Heartbreak hurts no doubt, you know trying to live a new life without the one that you are so much used to is not an easy task at all. But, you have to take heart and face reality that they are no more in your life. Therefore, you need to create a new world. 


Nevertheless, all experiences be it positive or negative define who we truly are as a person. You have to drop the luggage of the past and face the future. 


SOMETIMES, THE GOOD THINGS WE ENJOY IN LIFE SUDDENLY FALL APART FOR BETTER THINGS TO FALL TOGETHER. 


Job's life in the Bible is a good example. 


Importantly, due to the fact that someone special worked out of your life shouldn't make you bitter about love. Rather, It should make you  realize that if you wanted so much to be with the wrong person, how beautiful will it be when the right person comes?


GET IT: Letting go doesn't mean that you don't care about someone anymore. It is just making you realize that the only person you sincerely have control over is yourself. You have to let go of your past mistakes and heartaches. 


However, the reality is that, what is broken is broken, though it is hard to accept yet so true and real. It does take courage to understand this. 


Dearly beloved, just believe in yourself, believe that you got what it takes to work through the obstacles and difficult times. Just aspire to be a better person all along. 


Therefore, you must be willing to let go of the life that you have planned with this person, so as to have a better life that awaits you. 


Luke  4:18 The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to preach deliverance to the captives, and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised. KJV


Above all, surrender your life to Jesus and live for him, he will surely heal your broken heart in Jesus name 


Written by: © Josephine Aremo

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